Paul D. Purnell Sr.

The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way. (Psalm 27:23)

Paul D. Purnell Sr., affectionately known as “Uncle PDP” by many, was born on January 19, 1960, in Milford, Delaware. Paul possessed a charismatic personality that was infectious and a thoughtful spirit that knew no bounds. He was a man of faith who allowed God to use his gifts and talents to touch the lives of others. Paul lived life to the fullest, leaving behind a legacy of love, laughter, faith, and cherished memories. On Sunday, October 11, 2026, Paul peacefully departed this life to be with the Lord.

Early Life and Education
Paul received his early education through the Woodbridge School District and later returned to earn his GED through the James H. Groves Adult High School program. His strong work ethic began on the farm of T.S. Smith & Sons, where he worked diligently and operated various types of farm equipment.

In his early twenties, Paul moved to Wilmington, Delaware, where he began working for Speakman Plumbing and Manufacturing. In 1988, he earned his journeyman license through Delcastle Technical High School, further developing his skills and advancing his career in the plumbing and pipe-fitting trade.

Throughout his professional life, Paul held several positions, including Assistant to the Chief Engineer and House Plumber and Pipe Fitter at the historic Hotel duPont. He also worked as a truck driver for NFI Logistics and was recognized for his work as a motorbus driver with Delaware Express. Through his many years of hard work, Paul demonstrated dedication, perseverance, and a willingness to take on new challenges.

His Faith and Love of Music
Paul's passion for life was reflected in his many interests and hobbies. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, and riding motorcycles, embracing the freedom and excitement each brought him. Yet music held a particularly special place in his heart.

Paul began his drumming journey at The First Church of Deliverance in Laurel, Delaware, where his musical gifts first began to flourish. He continued to develop his talent at Refuge Temple Deliverance Church in Wilmington, Delaware. Music was more than a hobby for Paul; it was another way he expressed his faith, shared his gifts, and connected with others.

His commitment to serving God extended beyond music. Paul faithfully served as a deacon at Church on the Rock Ministry, Inc., in New Castle, Delaware. Through his faith and service, he sought to be a blessing to those around him.

A Love Called “Sweetness”
On November 22, 2008, Paul married the love of his life, Christine DeVose Purnell, affectionately known to him as “Sweetness.” Their love was warm, affectionate, and unmistakable. They cherished the simple yet meaningful moments of life together, holding hands, sharing kisses, and finding happiness in one another's company.

Their relationship was a beautiful reminder that love is found not only in grand gestures but also in the everyday moments that bring two hearts closer together. Paul and Christine shared a special bond, one filled with affection, companionship, and treasured memories that Christine will carry in her heart forever.

His Greatest Blessing: Family
Above all his accomplishments and interests, family was what mattered most to Paul. He was a loving and supportive husband, a devoted father, and a cherished member of his family. His love for Christine, his children, and those closest to him was an important part of who he was.

Paul shared a special bond with his brother Michael (considered his “Irish Twin) and their nephew Raymond. More than relatives, they were brothers at heart and the best of friends, creating memories and a bond that will forever be treasured. Paul also shared a special bond with both his niece Tiphane’ and nephew Michael, to whom he was affectionately known as “Uncle PDP,” - to them Paul was more than an uncle. Living nearby throughout their childhood, he became a constant presence in their lives and a second Dad.

Paul's presence brought joy to those around him. His warmth, generosity, and unmistakable personality made an impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him. Whether through a shared laugh, a word of encouragement, his music, or simply the gift of his presence, Paul had a way of making people feel connected.
His memory will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved him.

Those He Leaves to Cherish His Memory
Paul's memory will be lovingly cherished by his beloved wife Christine Purnell of Townsend, DE; two daughters, Ty’Etta Davis -Thomas (Antione) of Wilmington, DE, Tonya Davis (Randy Johnson) of Middletown, DE; two daughters-in-law, Thisa Brice-Purnell and Noreen Wilkes (Purnell); two brothers, Thomas Purnell (April) of New Castle, DE, and Michael Purnell Sr. (Patricia) of Bear, DE; five sisters Gladys Quail, Pauline Wright, Betty Harmon all of Seaford, DE, Matilda Ross of Laurel, DE, and Thelma Jones (Apostle Michael Jones) of Millsboro, DE; mother-in-law Shirley DeVose of Philadelphia, PA, father-in-law Phillip DeVose Sr. of Philadelphia, PA; one brother-in-law Phillip DeVose Jr. of Philadelphia, PA; one sister- in-law Pastor Ella Purnell of Seaford, DE; three uncles Howard Smack of Bridgeville, DE, Michael and Gregory Cannon; two aunts Tanya Smack of Bridgeville, DE and Gladys Catchlings of Dover, DE. A special sister/cousin Angeline Smith; 16 grandchildren, 15 great grandchildren, 31 nieces and nephews, a host of great nieces, nephews, and extended family members, friends, church family, and all those whose lives he touched.

Paul was preceded in death by his father, David Linwood Purnell Sr.; his mother, Mary Elizabeth Purnell; his son Paul D. Purnell Jr.; two brothers, David L. Purnell Jr. and Jeffrey Purnell; one sister Dorisann Purnell; one Aunt Martha Mae (David) Massey; two Uncles Thomas Bacon and Hollis Smack.

Though Paul is no longer physically present, the love he gave, the lessons he shared, the music he played, and the memories he created will continue to live on.

Service Information
The family invites all who knew and loved Paul D. Purnell Sr. to join them in celebrating his life on Friday, October 23, 2026, at 11:00 a.m with a public visitation two hours prior. EDT, at: Trinity Community Church
6580 Lancaster Pike Hockessin, Delaware 19707

Family, friends, and all whose lives were touched by Paul are encouraged to come together to honor his memory, share stories, and celebrate a life that meant so much to so many. The family also welcomes everyone to leave memories and upload photographs to Paul's memorial page so that the special moments and stories he leaves behind may continue to be shared for generations to come.